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We have walked and continue walk down this road ourselves. In our own journey we have learned and re-learned some important things… While we have many more to learn here are the few pieces of advice that help discussing the topic and also discern as a couple if you think this lifestyle is for you…

This will be a three to four part series… each having pieces of advice scattered in each…

let’s start with the basics-

Honesty and full disclosure- Now if dishonesty is a turn on for you please disregard this piece of counsel… Honesty all the way through for both parties is the best. Dishonesty in many situations once you enter into the lifestyle can damage or completely destroy your relationship. For example let’s say a man doesn’t tell his wife about certain things he is against after entering into this kind of relationship and she does one of those things he didn’t mention. That’s full disclosure. On the flip side what if a woman in the lifestyle with her husband/partner dated certain other men without her partner’s knowledge? This is all why full disclosure and honesty while in the cuckold lifestyle or pursuing it is the only safe path to travel.

Communication time- This is so important… When you two spend time together and you both think it’s right make sure you dicuss your wants, needs, desires, fears, and ideas with your partner. Make them more pointed. When you both discuss these things do it in a positive atmosphere and also which is very very important— make sure you Listen and Pay Attention to each other.

Above all else in your talks together if you leaning towards a yes… Make sure you are ready- Consider your relationship, it’s health, what your personal lives are like… all these are very important things to consider when making decisions concerning your relationship